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I feel so guilty about my success?
I just pretty much job landed my dream job right out of university. It will set me on path to exactly what I want to do in life. I’ll be making $27,000 a year. My parents are, of course, very happy for me, but I think it’s hurting my Dad’s self-esteem a little bit. He owns his own business and our family income is about the same (though our house is partially tax deductible etc). Their business doesn’t do too well and my parents are usually hard up for cash and though I won’t be able to give them too too much as I live in a big city and my living expenses are rather high, I will now be in a position where I could assist them financially. How do I broach this subject with my father?
He owes me $3000 for working for him during the summer. Do you think he’ll mind if I say it’s forgiven
Your father may not be reacting to how much you are making, but reacting instead to the fact that you will be leaving their home and becoming an adult.
In any case, if you want to help out, watch out for opportunities. Do they need a new TV, get them one for Christmas. Take them on a trip that they couldn’t afford to take themselves. You can always pick up clothing or little things you think they will enjoy and take them to them when you visit. (Please make sure to visit!) How about getting a cell phone plan and including them on your plan? You can always purchase gift cards to places they like to shop to help with groceries and other necessities. Just send them in a card and say thinking of you.
I don’t think you even have to mention the money that he owes you. Let him make the decision about bringing the subject up. If he brings it up, you might interrupt and just say, Dad, I was glad to help out. I’m doing fine and I don’t need the money. Use it for something special for you and mom. If you don’t want to wait, you are going to have to be very sensitive about bringing the subject up since he didn’t pay it when you were working for him.
Above all, try not to embarrass him. I know you are proud of your success and want to enjoy it by sharing your news with them. You might be surprised how tight your budget is once you start paying your living expenses. Unexpected expenses come up all the time and can really hurt a budget.
Good luck on your new life!
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The personal assistance provided at Assisted Living Facilities ensure that the dignity and self-respect of the occupants are upheld and that they get ample opportunities to socialize, make friends, and also keep in touch with their family. The assistance can be either routine or intensive. The personal assistants are trained to be mindful of the requirements and values of senior citizen.